Thursday, March 13, 2008

How to find a good date

Dating
Readers
I designed this blog to encourage readers to be more careful on how to date. I believe that in today’s society people don’t really understand the purpose of dating. Some people date just to say they have somebody. Some people date just to make sex partners. But how many people date for the real reasons. The purpose of dating is to find a wife. I personally don’t believe that a person should date another person unless they can see themselves with that person for the rest of their life’s. I think that so many hearts are broken because people don’t understand this concept. People’s hearts get broken because they treat relationships like clothes. People go out and buy tons of clothes but then only wear them once or twice. People also wear these clothes until they get tired of them. When they are tired of them, they throw them away. These are how relationships are done. Couples date until they get tired of one another and once they get tired of each other they kick each other to the curb. I want my readers to read this and be inspired to be more careful with who they select. To help you on how to be more careful with whom you select, I’m going to provide you with two possible solutions to protect your heart.
The first step to selecting a good man is to pray for God to provide you with a good man or women. I believe that in order to have a good manor woman one must have a man or women that follows God. If one is praying for God to give them a man or women then you will have a good man or women. I highly suggest that you don’t try to find your own man or woman. I personally tried to find my own girl and I was miserably. Once I begin to pray to God I then found the women of my dreams. ( My wife)
Once you think that God has provided you with the perfect man or women, then the next step would be for you to do is to introduce them to your parents, or a Godly elder that can encourage your relationship and hold you accountable to living a Christian life. I believe that a couple should be held accountable to living a Christian life because the relationship will last longer and it will be a relationship the God can look down on and be pleased. If God be for you, then who can be against you.